The Follow-Up Is the Marketing: What to Do After a Networking Event
You did it! You signed up for the networking event! You practiced your introduction, ordered business cards, went to the event, had meaningful conversations, and came home with a stack of business cards (and maybe a notebook full of ideas).
…Now what?
For many private practice owners, this is where networking ends. The business cards get tucked into a desk drawer. LinkedIn requests never get sent (or accepted). Follow-up emails remain drafts. Months later, the names and faces begin to blur together.
And that's exactly why so many people say networking "doesn't work."
The Fix
The truth is, the networking event itself isn't the marketing. The follow-up is.
The conversations you have during an event are simply the beginning of a professional relationship. What you do afterward determines whether that relationship grows into a referral source, consultation partner, collaborator, or simply becomes another forgotten business card.
Networking Is About Relationships, Not Transactions
One of the biggest shifts in marketing literacy is understanding that networking isn't about collecting as many contacts as possible. It's about cultivating relationships over time.
Referrals rarely happen because someone met you once. They happen because someone remembers you. They remember what you do, who you serve, and how you made them feel. That kind of trust isn't built in five minutes.
It's built through thoughtful follow-up.
Before Circling Back
Before you send a single email, spend a few minutes reflecting on the event.
Ask yourself:
Which conversations energized me?
Who would I genuinely like to stay connected with?
What questions kept coming up about my practice?
Was my introduction clear?
Did people understand who I help?
Networking events provide incredible feedback about your marketing.
If multiple people asked what your specialty meant, perhaps your messaging could be clearer. If people were confused by your business card or couldn't remember your website, maybe it's time for an update. Every networking event is an opportunity to refine how you present your practice.
Review Your Marketing Materials
One of the most valuable things you can do after an event is evaluate what worked and what didn't.
Did your business card include everything someone would need to contact you? Did your website reflect the conversations you were having? Did your one-pager clearly explain your services? Was there an easy way for someone to join your email list?
Marketing isn't static. Each interaction teaches you something new about how people experience your brand. Make adjustments to your materials each time, until they are a seamless part of your networking experience.
Organize Your New Connections
Please don't leave those business cards sitting in your car, at the bottom of your bag, or tucked in a folder pocket! Take a few minutes while the conversations are still fresh. Write notes on the back of cards or enter them into your preferred system.
Remember:
Where you met.
What you discussed.
Shared interests.
Potential referral opportunities.
Promises you made to follow up.
Even if you think the interaction was memorable enough not to need the reminder, write it down with details. No cryptic references. All the facts. Future-you will be grateful six months from now.
Connect Beyond the Event
Once you reviewed and catalogued your networking interactions, now it’s time to reach back out!
Relationships grow through consistent interaction, not one-time introductions.
The 8–10 Rule
One of my favorite networking reminders is what I call the 8–10 Rule.
Relationships take time. Research in relationship-building and sales consistently shows that people often need multiple meaningful interactions before trust develops. Rather than expecting one networking event to transform your referral pipeline, plan for eight to ten quality touchpoints over time.
Those touchpoints might include:
Meeting at a networking event (Congrats! You did that part!)
Connecting on LinkedIn
Sending a follow-up email
Seeing each other at a training
Referring a client
Sharing a helpful resource
Meeting for coffee
Attending another association event together
Celebrating each other's successes
Collaborating on a project
No single interaction builds a referral relationship.
Consistency does.
Engage!
Consider connecting through professional platforms like LinkedIn. If appropriate, invite colleagues to subscribe to your email newsletter or business social media pages so they can stay informed about your work, trainings, or upcoming events.
Likewise, follow their work! Comment on their successes. Celebrate milestones.
Follow Up Without Feeling Salesy
One of the biggest concerns I hear from therapists is: "I don't want to bother people."
Good news! Following up isn't bothering someone. It's continuing a conversation. Your email doesn't need to be elaborate. It can be as simple as:
"It was wonderful meeting you at the networking event yesterday. I really enjoyed learning about your work with adolescents. I hope we have the opportunity to stay connected."
That's it. No sales pitch. No pressure. Just relationship-building!
Introduce People to Each Other
One of the quickest ways to become a valuable member of your professional community is to become a connector.
Did two people you met have complementary specialties? Introduce them.
Know someone looking for a supervisor? Connect them.
Have a colleague searching for a referral source? Help facilitate the introduction.
Networking isn't about asking, "What can I get?" It's asking, "How can I contribute?" Ironically, the more generous you become with your network, the stronger your network becomes.
Marketing Is What Happens Between Events
The strongest referral networks aren't built at networking events. They're built between them.They're built through thoughtful follow-up, remembering names, checking in, supporting colleagues, and staying visible in an authentic way.
That's why email marketing, LinkedIn, networking, and relationship-building all work together. They're not separate marketing strategies.
They're different ways of nurturing the same professional relationships.
Looking Ahead
If you're in Colorado, I'd love to see you at the Colorado Counseling Association Speed Networking Event on August 7. It's one of my favorite opportunities to meet fellow mental health professionals, strengthen referral networks, and build the kind of community that helps private practice owners thrive.
Because at the end of the day, marketing isn't about convincing people to work with you… It's about making it easy for the right people to know you, trust you, and remember you.
And often, that starts with a simple follow-up.
Always in your corner,
Francisca
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